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Sunday, March 30, 2014

臨危不亂的牧師


臨危不亂的牧師

一個年輕人立志做一名牧師。

在美國,要做牧師就要通過牧師考試,其中有一項就是公開演講。
這個年輕人提前半個月就來到的考試的地方,租了一間旅館的房間住下來準備演講稿。
演講稿寫好了以後,他每天都在房間裡大聲地朗讀,一直到可以倒背如流。
到了考試的這一天,他心有成竹地來到考場,抽了簽後,就到台下聆聽觀摩排在他前面的考生演講。
還有一個人就輪到他了,這時他驚訝地發現:
台上的考生的演講內容與他一模一樣!
他仔細一看,才發現這個人就住在他的隔壁房間。
毫無疑問,這個考生偷聽他在房間裡的朗讀,剽竊了他的演講稿。
下一個就輪到他了,他強壓下滿心的憤怒和驚慌,拼命的尋找對策。
突然,他靈機一動……
輪到他演講了,年輕人站到台上,不慌不忙地說:"……"
他的演說贏得了熱烈的掌聲,最後他通過了考試。
他是怎麼做的呢?
想知道他是怎麼做的嗎?
他這樣說的:
要成為一個牧師,需要有耐心、能傾聽和有好的記憶力
我現在就演示一下,我將重復前一位的演講。」
說完,他開始背誦那篇他精心準備的演講稿,比前一位考生更精彩,場上響起了熱烈的掌聲。


危機就是轉機,臨危不亂、沉著應變的好例子。


聽聽比爾蓋茨Bill Gates談女人 & 人生10封信

1.  聽聽比爾蓋茨談女人 :
  
說得太好了,女人決定了一個家庭的生活方式所以女人要堅強! 真是個有智慧的人。

 
【人生四不要】
  1
、不要把煩惱帶到床上,因為那是一個睡覺的地方。
  2
、不要把怨恨帶到明天,因為那是一個美好的日子。
  3
、不要把憂鬱傳染給別人,因為那是一種不道德的行為。
  4
、不要把不良的情緒掛在臉上,因為那是一種令人討厭的表情。
 
從今天開始,每天堅持以上四點。

 
娶一個好女人旺三代!
 
娶一個衰女人敗六代!

 
比爾蓋茨堅定的認為:女人決定了一個家族的未來!

 
若你爹娶錯了女人,那麼你的童年將會生活在痛苦之中;
 
若你娶錯了女人,那你的中年也將生活在痛苦中;
 
若你兒子娶錯了女人,那你的晩年也將生活在痛苦中;
 
比爾·蓋茨去年在接受採訪時,被問到他一生中最聰明的決定是創建微軟還是大舉慈善?他回答都不是,找到合適 
的人結婚才是!而巴菲特曾經也談過,自己認為人生中最重要的決定是跟什麼人結婚,而不是任何一筆投資。
 
選擇伴侶不僅是選擇一個人,更是選擇一種生活方式。
  
女人決定了上一代人的幸福,這一代人的快樂,下一代人的未來。取一房好太太旺三代!
 
有智慧的男人應該讓你身邊的女人終身進修。
 
有智慧的女人應該把學習成長當作一生的必須課!



2.人生10封信

親愛的:
請好好善待自己,一輩子並不長!這個世界上除了自己,沒有誰能真正的拯救自己。  要知道,真正愛你的人不會說許多愛你。  這十封信,封封給力,封封都能帶給你正能量! 當我看不到幸福的時候,當我情緒失控的時候,當我抱怨這個世界的時候,這十封信陪我度過那些黑暗的日子,激起我正面能量。下面與你一起分享,希望也能幫助你!

 
《第一封》
 
假如人生不曾相遇,我還是那個我,偶爾做做夢,然後,開始日復一日的奔波,淹沒在這喧囂的城市裡。我不會瞭解,這個世界還有這樣的一個你,只有你能讓人回味,也只有你會讓我心醉。假如人生不曾相遇,我不會相信,有一種人可以百看不厭,有一種人一認識就覺得溫馨。

 
《第二封》
 
一直以為幸福在遠方,在可以追逐的未來。後來才發現,那些所謂曾經擁抱過的人,握過的手、唱過的歌、流過的淚、愛過的人,就是幸福。在無數的夜裡,說過的話、打過的電話,思念過的人、流過的眼淚,看見的或看不見的感動,我們都曾經歷過,然後在時間的穿梭中,一切成了永恆!

 
《第三封》
 
不要抱怨你沒有一個好爸爸,不要抱怨你的工作差,不要抱怨沒人賞識你。現實有太多的不如意,就算生活給你的是垃圾,你同樣能把垃圾踩在腳底下登上世界之巔。這個世界只在乎你是否在到達了一定的高度,而不在乎你是踩在巨人的肩膀上上去的,還是踩在垃圾上上去的。


  《第四封》
 
看別人不順眼,是自己修養不夠。人憤怒的那一個瞬間,智商是零,過一分鐘後恢復正常。人的優雅關鍵在於控制自己的情緒,用嘴傷害人,是最愚蠢的一種行為。
  
《第五封》
 
有個懂你的人,是最大的幸福。這個人,不一定十全十美,但他能讀懂你,能走進你的心靈深處,能看懂你心裡的一切。最懂你的人,總是會一直的在你身邊,默默守護你,不讓你受一點點的委屈。真正愛你的人不會說許多愛你的話,卻會做許多愛你的事。

 
《第六封》
 
一個人單身久了,就不想去戀愛,會感覺朋友越來越重要;
 
一個人單身久了,就不想去逛街,會越來越喜歡在家聽歌;
 
一個人單身久了,就變得成熟起來,會比以前越來越愛父母;
 
一個人單身久了,就買很多鞋子,會獨自去很多很遠的地方旅遊;一個人單身久了,就不經意會在眾人面前什麼都無所謂。

 
《第七封》
 
每一段記憶,都有一個密碼。只要時間,地點,人物組合正確,無論塵封多久,那人那景都將在遺忘中重新拾起。你也許會說不是都過去了嗎?其實過去的只是時間,你依然逃不出,想起了就微笑或悲傷的宿命,那種宿命本叫無能為力

 
《第八封》
 
有時候,心情莫名的不好,不想和任何人說話,只想一人靜靜的發呆。有時候,想一個人躲起來,不願別人看到自己的脆弱。有時候,走過熟悉的街角,看到熟悉的背影,突然想起一個人的臉。有時候,別人誤解了自己有口無心的話,心裡鬱悶的發慌。有時候,發現自己一夜之間就長大了。
  
《第九封》
 
如果有來生,要做一棵樹,站成永恆,沒有悲歡的姿勢。一半在土裡安詳,一半在風裡飛揚,一半灑落陰涼,一半沐浴陽光,非常沉默非常驕傲,從不依靠從不尋找。

 
《第十封》
 
身邊總有些人,你看見她整天都開心,率真得像個小孩,人人都羡慕她;其實,你哪裡知道:前一秒人後還傷心地流著淚的她,後一秒人前即刻洋溢燦爛笑容。他們其實沒有能力獨處,夜深人靜時,總坐在窗前對著夜空冥想失意的苦楚。他們就像向日葵,向著太陽的正面永遠明媚鮮亮,在照不到的背面卻將悲傷深藏。


心靈享宴 凡事隨緣。學習放下。

非洲歌手好弟学唱中国风第2篇《芊芊》

好弟唱得太棒了

Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Saturday, March 22, 2014

千年預言 - 詩聖李白

詩聖李白,太牛了!

騰雲
   ·李白
        騰駕祥雲
        海郡。
        于蓬莱
        無處尋
把首字連起來居然馬航失踪難道千年前的李白居然已經預測到了

日本也要完了,安倍也死定了,因为李白是个预言
詩聖李白,他在唐朝就知道安倍这家伙死!有他的詩為證
    
    落霞缀清
    落缘分
    水微漾人却
               
               
               
               

Saturday, March 15, 2014

知恩識報的"雪地鳳凰" ( 中國夢想秀 )

一個無私大愛的父親, 用盡一生,培育一名沒有血緣關係的,全醫學院第一名的女兒,一個懂事又孝順的女兒...就在這麼窮困又艱難的生活環境下, 滋生了如此感人的故事~真是讓人感動流淚!! 


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Thursday, March 13, 2014

Doctors & Hospital Alert !

Mr Varun, an IT professional working in Technopark, was finding himself with an upset stomach every night.

While normal medical checks revealed nothing wrong in him, deeper probes revealed the reason – his stomach was collecting significant amounts of wax.
And doctors identified the villian – the ordinary disposable paper cups he used for drinking his tea at his office pantry.

Disposable paper cups have become quite popular in office pantries due to the convenience it offers.

What many overlook is the fact that these paper cups are coated with a tiny layer of wax, which is essential to prevent water from seeping into the paper.
When very hot liquids are pour over this cup, the paper cups wax may disintegrate and a little may come off, which will promptly be sent along with the drink into our stomachs!
While our body can discard minor amounts, over the long-term, it does become a problem.

So what can be done about it?

You can try to bring your own glass cups.

Glass is one of the least reactive materials in the world (remember acids are stored in glass vessels, blood samples are collected in glass plates – these are for a good reason).
But glass does have the problem of breaking easily, so it requires good care.
Ceramic cups are probably the best bet.

Of course, you can also use your ordinary stainless steel glass, but never use plastic ones 

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                                 Photo: Vending Machine Cups

So brother & sister, try not to buy hot drink from the vending machines that are using this type of cups as shown in the photos attached .

來世不動產

§ 好文分享:來世不動產 算算人生最後積分是多少文/ 董憓陵
       
     近日看了一部關於死後轉生載體的微電影《來世不動產》,這是一部非常有趣的日本短片,拍攝手法詼諧幽默而又深富教育意涵!
       
   在人世的一言一行、起心動念,或許瞬間即逝,許多人不以為意,以為船過水無痕,其實人生中所有的思想與行為在我們的「人生日記簿」上,每天都詳盡地被逐筆紀錄下來。

     生、老、病、死之後,輪迴轉生之際,這一世的「人生日記簿」將會決定來世的「載體」去向,此片主要意涵其實就是中國人自古以來「善有善報、惡有惡報、積德行善、輪迴轉生」的概念,改用「不動產」創意方式重新包裝。 

劇情大概是這樣,有一臥病在床的男子(高橋克實飾),生前所看到的最後一幕,是醫院外樹上夏蟬鳴唱的景象,往生之後,發現自己躺在一望無際的大草原上,眼前只有一棟建築,上面寫著「不動產」。 

     《來世不動產》辦事人員向男子解釋,這裡是選擇「來世」之仲介不動產公司,電腦裡巨細靡遺的詳細紀錄了這一世所有「善行、 惡行、不做為」的分類屬性與累積次數,最後依這一世所累積的功過加減值計算出分數,選擇靈魂來世的住宅不動產「載體」。

     選擇「載體」的項目大致可分為:富人、窮人、殘障、乳牛、龍蝦、熊貓、小狗、昆蟲...等,每一個「載體」都有具體的分數等級,能否如願選擇想要的「載體」,取決於自己生前所做一切功過加減最後所得的「分數」。
      
     因為中年男子這一世所累積的「分數」不夠,無法選擇「第一志願」成為人類,在「不動產」主人三寸不爛之舌的遊說下,男子最後選擇了一出生「載體」形式--藏土七年、只鳴七天的蟬」。 

「人生功過」在起心動念的那一刻其實就已拍板定案,常言道「舉頭三尺有神明」。

「不是不報,只是時機未到」,在這個社會大洪流中,許多人抱持著

「人不為己,天誅地滅」,

「人生苦短,及時行樂」,

「大錯不犯,小惡不斷」等思想,導致

「人生分數」常趨近低分組 。

此影片極富有人生教育意義,看過後會讓人做事更謹慎,隨時存好心,說好話,作好事,從而積德行善、眾善奉行!推薦給大家好好自我檢視一番囉!

《來世不動產》微電影 http://youtu.be/noy8R7QLA54 

小小心得若真的有此產業,對於現在社會的風氣應該馬上會有警示之用。










Sunday, March 9, 2014

Ten Things That Will Disappear In Our Lifetime .


 
This is USA oriented, but Canada & the rest will not be far behind.
Whether these changes are good or bad depends in part on how we adapt to them.
But, ready or not, here they come.
 
1. The Post Office
Get ready to imagine a world without the post office.
They are so deeply in financial trouble that there is probably no way to sustain it long term. Email, Fed Ex, and UPS have just about wiped out the minimum revenue needed to keep the post office alive.
Most of your mail every day is junk mail and bills.

2. The Cheque
Britain is already laying the groundwork to do away with cheques by 2018.
It costs the financial system billions of dollars a year to process checks.
Plastic cards and online transactions will lead to the eventual demise of the check.
This plays right into the death of the post office.
If you never paid your bills by mail and never received them by mail, the post office would absolutely go out of business.
 
3. The Newspaper 
The younger generation simply doesn't read the newspaper. They certainly don't subscribe to a daily delivered print edition.
That may go the way of the milkman and the laundry man. As for reading the paper online, get ready to pay for it.
The rise in mobile Internet devices and e-readers has caused all the newspaper and magazine publishers to form an alliance.
They have met with Apple, Amazon, and the major cell phone companies to develop a model for paid subscription services.
 
4. The Book 
You say you will never give up the physical book that you hold in your hand and turn the literal pages.
I said the same thing about downloading music from iTunes. I wanted my hard copy CD.
But I quickly changed my mind when I discovered that I could get albums for half the price
without ever leaving home to get the latest music. The same thing will happen with books.
You can browse a bookstore online and even read a preview chapter before you buy.
And the price is less than half that of a real book. And think of the convenience!
Once you start flicking your fingers on the screen instead of the book, you find that you are lost in the story,
can't wait to see what happens next, and you forget that you're holding a gadget instead of a book.
 
5. The Land Line Telephone 
Unless you have a large family and make a lot of local calls, you don't need it anymore.
Most people keep it simply because they've always had it.
But you are paying double charges for that extra service.
All the cell phone companies will let you call customers using the same cell provider for no charge against your minutes.
6. Music 
This is one of the saddest parts of the change story. The music industry is dying a slow death.
Not just because of illegal downloading.
It's the lack of innovative new music being given a chance to get to the people who would like to hear it.
Greed and corruption is the problem. The record labels and the radio conglomerates are simply self-destructing.
Over 40% of the music purchased today is "catalogue items," meaning traditional music that the public is familiar with.
Older established artists. This is also true on the live concert circuit.
To explore this fascinating and disturbing topic further, check out the book,
"Appetite for Self-Destruction" by Steve Knopper, and the video documentary, "Before the Music Dies."
 
7. Television
Revenues to the networks are down dramatically. Not just because of the economy.
People are watching TV and movies streamed from their computers.
And they're playing games and doing lots of other things that take up the time that used to be spent watching TV.
Prime time shows have degenerated down to lower than the lowest common denominator.
Cable rates are skyrocketing andcommercials run about every 4 minutes and 30 seconds.
I say good riddance to most of it.  It's time for the cable companies to be put out of our misery.
Let the people choose what they want to watch online and through Netflix.
 
8. The "Things" That You Own 
Many of the very possessions that we used to own are still in our lives, but we may not actually own them in the future.
They may simply reside in "the cloud." Today your computer has a hard drive and you store your pictures, music, movies, and documents.
Your software is on a CD or DVD, and you can always re-install it if need be.
But all of that is changing. Apple, Microsoft, and Google are all finishing up their latest "cloud services."
That means that when you turn on a computer, the Internet will be built into the operating system.
So, Windows, Google, and the Mac OS will be tied straight into the Internet.
If you click an icon, it will open something in the Internet cloud. If you save something, it will be saved to the cloud.
And you may pay a monthly subscription fee to the cloud provider.
In this virtual world, you can access your music or your books, or your whatever from any laptop or handheld device.
That's the good news.
But, will you actually own any of this "stuff" or will it all be able to disappear at any moment in a big "Poof?"
Will most of the things in our lives be disposable and whimsical?
It makes you want to run to the closet and pull out that photo album, grab a book from the shelf, or open up a CD case and pull out the insert.
9. Joined Handwriting
 (Most schools no longer teaches cursive)
Already gone in some schools who no longer teach "joined handwriting" because nearly
everything is done now on computers or keyboards of some type (pun not intended)
10. Privacy 
If there ever was a concept that we can look back on nostalgically, it would be privacy. That's gone.
It's been gone for a long time anyway.. There are cameras on the street, in most of the buildings, and even built into your computer and cell phone.
But you can be sure that 24/7, "They" know who you are and where you are, right down to the GPS coordinates, and the Google Street View.
If you buy something, your habit is put into a zillion profiles, and your ads will change to reflect those habits.."They" will try to get you to buy something else. Again and again.
 


All we will have left that can't be changed are "Memories".

Saturday, March 8, 2014

有意思的生活中的經濟學


1、【送茶葉的小故事】
張三一直喜歡喝20塊錢的茶葉。新開茶店裡每次張三去買茶葉,老闆都送他半兩好茶。張三將好茶攢著待客。一天閒來無事泡壺好茶,竟喝上癮。喝完免費的好茶,張三便不願喝20塊的了。不管他買多貴的茶葉,老闆總送他半兩更好的。半年下來,張三花在茶葉上的錢是原來的十倍!

2、【坐飛機的一個現象】
觀察3040這個年紀的旅客,頭等艙的旅客往往是在看書,商務艙的旅客大多看雜誌用筆記本辦公,經濟艙則看報紙電影玩遊戲和聊天的較多。在機場,貴賓廳裡面的人大多在閱讀,而普通候機區全都在玩手機。那麼,到底是人的位置影響了行為呢,還是行為影響了位置呢?

3、【奪取先機】
商人帶兩袋大蒜到某地,當地人沒見過大蒜,極為喜愛,於是贈商人兩袋金子。另一商人聽說,便帶兩袋大蔥去,當地人覺得大蔥更美味,金子不足表達感情,於是把兩袋大蒜給了他。雖是故事,但生活往往如此,得先機者得金子,步後塵者就可能得大蒜!善於走自己的路,才可能走別人沒走過的路。

4、【不許偷酒】
某人買了一壇好酒,放在小院,第二天,酒少了1/5,便在酒桶上貼了不 許偷酒四個字。第三天酒又少了2/5,又貼了偷酒者重罰。第四天,酒還是被偷,於是貼尿桶二字,看誰還喝。第五天他哭了。桶滿了。……故事還沒完,第六天,他再次在酒桶上貼了不許偷酒四字。那一天很多人都哭了。

5、【換位思維】
一富豪到華爾街銀行借5000元貸款,借期兩週,銀行貸款須有抵押,富豪用停在門口的勞斯萊斯做抵押。銀行職員將他的勞斯萊斯停在地下車庫裡,然後借給富豪5000元,兩週後富豪來還錢,利息僅15元,銀行職員發現富豪帳上有幾百萬,問為啥還要借錢,富豪說:"15元兩週的停車場,在華爾街是永遠找不到的。(就是這樣精打細算才會富的吧!?)


6、【成功只有兩點】
一是做事成功,二是做人成功。做人不成功,成功是暫時的;做人成功,不成功也是暫時的。要做事,先做人。邱吉爾說,成功根本沒有秘訣,如果有的話,就只有兩個:一是堅持到底,永不放棄;二是當你想放棄的時候,請回過頭來再照著第一個秘訣去做。萬事只怕有心人。

7、【保齡球效應】
保齡球投擲對像是10 瓶子,你如果每次砸倒9個瓶子,最終得分90分;而你如果每次能砸倒10 瓶子,最終得分240分。社會記分規則就是這樣:只要你比 別人稍微優秀一點,能再多堅持一會,就贏得更多機會。這種 機會疊加就是人生效應的逐級放大,最終造成人與人之間巨大的落差。

8、【冰淇淋哲學】
賣冰淇淋必須從冬天開始,因為冬天顧客少,逼迫你降低成本改善服務。如果能在冬天中生存,就再也不會害怕夏天的競爭;同樣只有吃過苦才知道享受生活美好。想在順境中事業能蒸蒸日上,就必須在逆境中經過一番錘煉,這就是台灣著名企業家王永慶提出的冰淇淋哲學

9、【名牌效應】
成本大概400——600元的愛馬仕,賣價6萬!富豪們依然趨之若鶩。啥叫名牌?成本價後面加一個0的,就叫名牌。成本價後面加兩個0的,就叫奢侈品。成本價後面隨便想加幾個0就加幾個0的,就叫文物!